2005-03-10

Women in the military

A blast from the past:
Jim Webb in November 1979 Washingtonian:

1979-11-James-Webb-women-cant-fight
Jim Webb: Women Can’t Fight
by James Webb
Washingtonian Magazine, November 1979

“Your mission remains fixed, determined, inviolable—it is to win wars,”
Douglas MacArthur told the 1962 West Point class.
In this story, a Naval Academy graduate, a combat veteran of Vietnam,
says the country’s fighting mission is being corrupted,
with grave consequences to the national defense.
One of the main problems, he says, is women.

[The response to this, in 2015, of course
is to point out that women have been fighting,
in Afghanistan, Iraq, and other places.
Does that demolish all of Webb's arguments?
I don't know.]










2013

2013-01-24-WP-Editorial-women-in-combat-the-military-faces-reality
Women in combat
Washington Post Editorial, 2013-01-24

WOMEN IN THE U.S. military have been on the front lines of two wars. They’ve engaged the enemy, suffered grievous injury and been awarded medals for valor; 152 of them have died. So the Defense Department’s decision to lift its official ban on women in combat is, in some respects, an acknowledgement of reality. Nonetheless, it is a historic move — both sobering and exhilarating — that affirms the importance of women in defending this country and removes barriers that have impeded them in that work.

“The fact is they have become an integral part of our ability to perform our mission,” Defense Secretary Leon E. Panetta said Thursday as he announced an end to a policy that essentially restricted women from serving in the infantry, artillery, special operations and other specialties. The decision to upend a rule in place since 1994 came on the recommendation of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, whose chairman, Gen. Martin Dempsey, joined Mr. Panetta in signing an order that will open hundreds of thousands of front-line jobs to female service members.

One result will be a more level playing field for women, who make up about 14 percent of active-duty personnel: As they seek to advance in rank, they will no longer be hobbled by lack of official combat credentials. Gen. Dempsey said that the change will also mitigate the military’s persistent problem of sexual assault and harassment: Having “part of the population designated as warriors and one as something else” has “in some way led to that environment.”

Neither of those benefits would justify the change if it were to compromise military effectiveness. But most people knowledgeable about the situation believe that won’t happen. “American women are already serving in harm’s way today all over the world,” said Sen. John McCain (R-Ariz.). “It reflects the reality of 21st-century military operations,” said Sen. Carl Levin (D-Mich.), chair of the Armed Services Committee. Gen. Dempsey said that the change will be implemented in a way that won’t sacrifice the military’s capability.

Each branch of the military is charged with devising its own plan and will be allowed to seek exceptions if officials think there are positions that should remain closed to women. It’s important, as Mr. McCain added, that standards not be compromised. But the way in which female service members in Iraq and Afghanistan performed a range of jobs once thought unimaginable for them — from driving trucks down bomb-strewn roads to serving as gunners on vehicles — is evidence not only of their mettle but also of the military’s ability to properly train and deploy its troops.





2013-01-25-WP-Parker-military-is-putting-women-at-unique-risk
Combat puts women at unique risk
By Kathleen Parker
Washington Post, 2013-01-25

It must be true what they say about women — that they are smarter, stronger, wiser and wilier than your average Joe.

How else could one explain the magical thinking that apparently has prompted Defense Secretary Leon Panetta and Gen. Martin Dempsey, chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, to abandon all reason and lift the ban on women in direct combat?

Methinks the boys have been outmaneuvered.

This is a terrible idea for reasons too numerous to list in this space, which forces me to recommend my 2008 book, “Save the Males,” in which I devote a chapter to the issue. The most salient point happens to be a feminist argument: Women, because of their inferior physical capacities and greater vulnerabilities upon capture, have a diminished opportunity for survival.

More on this, but first let’s be clear. Arguments against women in direct combat have nothing to do with courage, skill, patriotism or dedication. Most women are equal to most men in all these categories and are superior to men in many other areas, as our educational graduation rates at every level indicate. Women also tend to excel as sharpshooters and pilots.

But ground combat is one area in which women, through quirks of biology and human nature, are not equal to men — a difference that should be celebrated rather than rationalized as incorrect.

Remember, we’re not talking about female officers of a certain age pacing the hallways of the Pentagon when we speak of placing women in combat, though perhaps we should be. My favorite bumper sticker remains: “I’m out of estrogen and I have a gun.”

We’re potentially talking about 18-year-old girls, notwithstanding their “adult” designation under the law. (Parents know better.) At least 18-year-old males have the advantage of being gassed up on testosterone, the hormone that fuels not just sexual libido but, more to the point, aggression. To those suffering a sudden onset of the vapors, ignore hormones at your peril.

Now, hold the image of your 18-year-old daughter, neighbor, sister or girlfriend as you follow these facts, which somehow have been ignored in the advancement of a fallacy. The fallacy is that because men and women are equal under the law, they are equal in all endeavors and should have all access to the same opportunities. This is true except when the opportunity requires certain characteristics. Fact: Females have only half the upper-body strength as males — no small point in the field.

Further to the fallacy is the operating assumption that military service is just another job. The rules of civil society do not apply to the military, which is a top-down organization in which the rules are created to maximize efficiency in killing enemies. It is not just another job that can be managed with the human resources department’s Manual on Diversity and Sensitivity.

The argument that women’s performance on de facto front lines in Iraq and Afghanistan has proved concerns about combat roles unwarranted is false logic. Just because women in forward support companies can return fire when necessary — or die — doesn’t necessarily mean they are equal to men in combat.

Unbeknown perhaps to many civilians, combat has a very specific meaning in the military. It has nothing to do with stepping on an IED or suffering the consequences of being in the wrong place at the wrong time. It means aggressively engaging and attacking the enemy with deliberate offensive action, with a high probability of face-to-face contact.

If the enemy is all around you — and you need every available person — that is one set of circumstances. To ask women to engage vicious men and risk capture under any other is beyond understanding. This is not a movie or a game. Every objective study has argued against women in direct combat for reasons that haven’t changed.

The threat to unit cohesion should require no elaboration. But let’s leave that obvious point to pedants and cross into enemy territory where somebody’s 18-year-old daughter has been captured. No one wants to imagine a son in these circumstances either, obviously, but women face special tortures. And, no, the rape of men has never held comparable appeal.

We can train our men to ignore the screams of their female comrades, but is this the society we want to create? And though some female veterans of the Iraq and Afghanistan wars have endured remarkable suffering, their ability to withstand or survive violent circumstances is no rational argument for putting American girls and women in the hands of enemy men.



2013-02-03-WP-Parker-combat-women-and-congresss-wimps
Kathleen Parker: Combat women and Congress’s wimps
By Kathleen Parker
Washington Post Op-Ed, 2013-02-03

Polling that shows Americans favor women in combat by a 2-to-1 margin is evidence only of the power of misinformation.

And, yes, indoctrination.

Arguments favoring women in direct combat are perhaps well-intentioned, focusing on fairness, opportunity and pride in certain women’s abilities. Unfortunately, most people who make those arguments are operating on false assumptions. And, shall we say, mis-truths.

It’s not their fault. For the past several decades, the media and popular culture have relentlessly advanced the fantasy narrative of women as groin-kicking, martial-arts divas of doom. Where are all the brave men and women who know better? Would that lawmakers could stop preening for cameras long enough to examine the issue more closely. Democrats may be merely falling in line with their commander in chief, but Republicans seem to be suffering from Stockholm syndrome. They’ve been slapped around for so long, they’ve become sympathetic to their captors.

...

That our Congress is accepting this change without any debate isn’t progress. It is a dereliction of duty and, one is tempted to say, suggestive of cowardice.







2015

2015-05-15-WT-military-pressed-to-design-line-of-women-friendly-
U.S. military pressed to design special line of combat boots just for women
by Rowan Scarborough
Washington Times, 2015-05-15




2015-08-19-Patrick-Lang-blog-on-female-Ranger-graduates
Whatcha gonna do now, Ranger? - TTG
by TTG ?
(I don't keep up with Lang's blog; TTG is evidently one of his contributors
Oh wait, in the comments section we find "TTG" is "The Twisted Genius".)
Patrick Lang blog, 2015-08-29

...

“Congratulations to all of our new Rangers,”
Army Secretary John McHugh said in a statement.
“Each Ranger School graduate has shown the physical and mental toughness to successfully lead organizations at any level.
This course has proven that every soldier, regardless of gender, can achieve his or her full potential.
We owe soldiers the opportunity to serve successfully in any position where they are qualified and capable,
and we continue to look for ways to select, train, and retain the best Soldiers to meet our nation’s needs.”
(Washington Post)

************************************

I agree with much of what our new Army Secretary John McHugh said.
But something struck me as wrong about his statement.
Do we really owe soldiers the opportunity to serve successfully in any position?
Service in the Army is about giving and sacrificing to a greater goal,
not about self actualization and career advancement.
[Amen.
You read most of what comes from the PC scum in the media,
and it's all about
what this means for (some) women,
not what it means for the effectiveness of the American military.
Let me emphasize:
The people who only look at this, and other thing,
from the perspective of
their theories of "what's good for women"
are pure scum.
I don't care if they are the Army Secretary.]

That is the crux of why is I think this push for women in combat units
is misguided and dangerous.
It’s being done for the wrong reasons.

The Ranger Course is a leadership development course, not a combat training course.
It uses patrolling in a simulated combat environment
as a means to develop small unit leaders.
Soldiers from any branch can attend.
A finance officer friend was one of my classmates.
It is also open to other services and to allied foreign officers.
A Nicaraguan lieutenant was one of two students that froze to death in my class.
The other was a US Army Engineer lieutenant.

We now know the identity of these two Ranger qualified female soldiers. They are CPT Shaye Haver, an Apache pilot from the 101st ID, and 1LT Kristen Griest, a Military Police officer. Both failed the Darby Phase twice and were allowed to recycle. Most recycles and drops are for medical reasons. They also had to pass several peer reviews from their fellow students. I’m sure these two officers learned something important about themselves during the Ranger Course. I hope they will be better officers for it. They will have to ignore the media circus and the shrill cries of those calling for tearing down more barriers to women’s career advancement in the armed services in order to be those better officers.

That will be difficult. I read several news articles and opinion pieces and watched several CNN interviews on YouTube.
The strident calls for gender equality in the combat arms and the total cluelessness about the difference between the Ranger Tab and the 75th Ranger Regiment are astounding.
...

There are so many calls for these female soldiers to be allowed to join the Ranger Regiment.
No one is allowed to join the Ranger Regiment just because he/she has successfully completed the Ranger Course.
There’s a different selection process for that along with prerequisites for applying.
Foremost among these prerequisites is that you have to volunteer for it. Did any of these “chairborne commandos" ask these officers if they wanted to be in the Ranger Regiment? Does the Ranger Regiment need a helicopter pilot or an MP? There are positions for several support officers like JAG, medical, logistics, but no one is going to lead a Ranger platoon or company without first doing a bang up job as an Infantry platoon leader or company commander… and that’s what the culture warriors are fighting for.

I have no doubt there will be efforts to put women through the Army Infantry Officer Basic Course
just as there are ongoing efforts to put woman Marines through the Infantry Leader Course at Quantico.
So far no woman Marine has made it past the first few days.
I just heard it announced today that SEAL training will soon be open to female applicants.
I’m sure the SF Officers Qualification Course will be among the next targets for gender equality.
I’d bet there are women who can pass the course,
but lead an SF detachment on an MTT to Mali, Nigeria or Malaysia?
I can’t see that.
Will any of these gender equality efforts benefit these units?
Hell no and I’m prepared to argue that. But that question isn’t being asked.
It’s all about career opportunities.
Unit mission is secondary at best.
I consider myself a very progressive and open minded person,
but I find the current push for gender equality in the combat arms to be
misguided at best and dangerous at worst.

[Again, amen.]

Bring on the arguments.

TTG

[There are many comments on this piece,
most by people who have been in the military.
I don't know how many, but over a hundred.]




2015-12-03-WP-pentagon-chief-to-announce-how-womens-roles-in-the-military-will-expand
In historic decision, Pentagon chief opens all jobs in combat units to women
By Dan Lamothe
Washington Post, 2015-12-03

Defense Secretary Ashton B. Carter said Thursday that he is opening all jobs in combat units to women, a landmark decision that would for the first time allow female service members to join the country’s most elite military forces.

Women will now be eligible to join the Navy SEALs, Army Special Forces and other Special Operations Units. It also opens the Marine Corps infantry, a battle-hardened force that many service officials had openly advocated keeping closed to female service members.

“There will be no exceptions,” Carter said. “This means that, as long as they qualify and meet the standards, women will now be able to contribute to our mission in ways they could not before.”

Carter’s announcement caps three years of experimentation at the Pentagon and breakthroughs for women in the armed services. Earlier this year, two female soldiers became the first women to ever graduate from the Army’s grueling Ranger School. But the Pentagon’s project also set off a bitter debate about how women should be integrated.

Carter said that top leaders in the Army, Navy, Air Force and U.S. Special Operations Command all recommended that all jobs be opened to women. The Marine Corps recommended that certain jobs such as machine gunner be kept closed, but the secretary said that the military is a joint force, and his decision will apply to everyone. The top Marine officer who made that recommendation, Gen. Joseph F. Dunford, became chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff in September, and did not appear alongside Carter on Thursday.

The services will have 30 days to provide plans to Carter on how they will implement the policy change, he said. By law, the military also must notify Congress formally and wait that long before making any changes.

The roots of the secretary’s decision date back to January 2013, when then-Defense Secretary Leon Panetta announced he was rescinding a longtime ban on women serving directly in ground combat units. Panetta gave the services until this fall to research the issue.

About 220,000 jobs, or about 10 percent, of the military remained closed to women before Thursday’s announcement, Carter said. Another 110,000 jobs in careers like artillery officer were opened in a series of decisions since 2013.

President Obama said in a statement that the Defense Department is “taking another historic step forward” by opening up all positions to women.

“As Commander in Chief, I know that this change, like others before it, will again make our military even stronger. Our armed forces will draw on an even wider pool of talent,” Obama said. “Women who can meet the high standards required will have new opportunities to serve. I know that, under the leadership of Secretary Carter and Chairman Dunford, our men and women in uniform will implement this transition — as they have others — in a responsible manner that maintains military readiness and the unparalleled professionalism and strength of our armed forces.”

The issue has at times opened an uncommonly public rift between senior military leaders. In particular, Navy Secretary Ray Mabus took issue with a Marine Corps study that found that the average woman struggled to keep up with men, according to a number of metrics. The study did not track individual performance, drawing fire from Mabus and others in favor of full integration.

As the Marine Corps commandant, Dunford recommended to keep a number of jobs in infantry and reconnaissance units closed. Carter, asked why Dunford was not present for the announcement on Thursday, said that he and the general have talked extensively on the subject, and he “will be with me” as the services proceeds with making related changes.

Defense Secretary Ashton B. Carter said Thursday that he is opening all jobs in combat units to women, a landmark decision that would for the first time allow female service members to join the country’s most elite military forces.

Women will now be eligible to join the Navy SEALs, Army Special Forces and other Special Operations Units. It also opens the Marine Corps infantry, a battle-hardened force that many service officials had openly advocated keeping closed to female service members.

“There will be no exceptions,” Carter said. “This means that, as long as they qualify and meet the standards, women will now be able to contribute to our mission in ways they could not before.”

Carter’s announcement caps three years of experimentation at the Pentagon and breakthroughs for women in the armed services. Earlier this year, two female soldiers became the first women to ever graduate from the Army’s grueling Ranger School. But the Pentagon’s project also set off a bitter debate about how women should be integrated.

[Why the Pentagon opening all jobs to women could subject them to a military draft]

Carter said that top leaders in the Army, Navy, Air Force and U.S. Special Operations Command all recommended that all jobs be opened to women. The Marine Corps recommended that certain jobs such as machine gunner be kept closed, but the secretary said that the military is a joint force, and his decision will apply to everyone. The top Marine officer who made that recommendation, Gen. Joseph F. Dunford, became chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff in September, and did not appear alongside Carter on Thursday.

The services will have 30 days to provide plans to Carter on how they will implement the policy change, he said. By law, the military also must notify Congress formally and wait that long before making any changes.

The roots of the secretary’s decision date back to January 2013, when then-Defense Secretary Leon Panetta announced he was rescinding a longtime ban on women serving directly in ground combat units. Panetta gave the services until this fall to research the issue.

About 220,000 jobs, or about 10 percent, of the military remained closed to women before Thursday’s announcement, Carter said. Another 110,000 jobs in careers like artillery officer were opened in a series of decisions since 2013.

Army Maj. Lisa Jaster, center, embraces 1st Lt. Shaye Haver, left, and Capt. Kristen Griest, right, after a graduation ceremony at the Army’s Ranger School on Oct. 16, 2015, at Fort Benning, Ga. Jaster, who is the first Army Reserve female to graduate from the Army’s Ranger School, joins Griest and Haver as the third female soldier to complete the school. (Branden Camp/AP)

President Obama said in a statement that the Defense Department is “taking another historic step forward” by opening up all positions to women.

“As Commander in Chief, I know that this change, like others before it, will again make our military even stronger. Our armed forces will draw on an even wider pool of talent,” Obama said. “Women who can meet the high standards required will have new opportunities to serve. I know that, under the leadership of Secretary Carter and Chairman Dunford, our men and women in uniform will implement this transition — as they have others — in a responsible manner that maintains military readiness and the unparalleled professionalism and strength of our armed forces.”

The issue has at times opened an uncommonly public rift between senior military leaders. In particular, Navy Secretary Ray Mabus took issue with a Marine Corps study that found that the average woman struggled to keep up with men, according to a number of metrics. The study did not track individual performance, drawing fire from Mabus and others in favor of full integration.

As the Marine Corps commandant, Dunford recommended to keep a number of jobs in infantry and reconnaissance units closed.Carter, asked why Dunford was not present for the announcement on Thursday, said that he and the general have talked extensively on the subject, and he “will be with me” as the services proceeds with making related changes.

[Marine experiment finds women shoot less accurately, get injured more frequently than men]

“He understands what my decision is, and my decision is my decision, and we will implement it accordingly,” Carter said.

Dunford said in a statement on Thursday afternoon that it is his job to provide his “candid best military advice” to Carter on issues ranging from military readiness, to combat effectiveness, to how the services are employed.

“I have had the opportunity to provide my advice on the issue of full integration of women into the Armed Forces,” Dunford’s statement said. “In the wake of the Secretary’s decision, my responsibility is to ensure his decision is properly implemented. Moving forward my focus is to lead the full integration of women in a manner that maintains our joint warfighting capability, ensures the health and welfare of our people, and optimizes how we leverage talent across the Joint Force.”

Dunford’s spokesman, Navy Capt. Gregory Hicks, said Dunford did not appear Thursday because it was Carter’s decision, and his “opportunity to announce that decision.” Three years ago, Army Gen. Martin E. Dempsey, then the Joint Chiefs chairman, appeared alongside Panetta as he announced that he was rescinding the combat exclusion policy.

Carter said the important factor in him opening all jobs to women was to give the military access to every American who can add strength to it. Studies carried out by the services since 2013 found that some of the standards the military previously used to determine whether a service member was fit for a job were outdated or didn’t reflect the actual tasks required in combat, he said.

“It’s been evidence-based, and iterative,” Carter said of the review. “I’m confident the Defense Department can implement this successfully, because throughout our history we’ve consistently proven ourselves to be a learning organization.”

The Marine Corps will immediately begin the process of implementing the policy change, and share plans and lessons learned with the other services, said Maj. Chris Devine, a Marine spokesman at the Pentagon.

“We are well-informed by our combat experience, as well as our objective approach and data obtained from the past two years of study,” Devine said. “As we move forward with full integration, we’ll continue to maintain our standards, while leveraging every opportunity to optimize individual performance, talent and skills to maximize the warfighting capabilities of our [Marine air ground task forces] in an increasingly complex operating environment.”

Carter cited the military’s 2011 repeal on a policy banning gay service members from serving openly as an example of how gender integration can be completed successfully. The repeal of that “don’t ask, don’t tell” policy raised questions in many corners of the military at the time, but is now widely considered to have been implemented smoothly and without hurting the military’s ability to fight.

The secretary also noted that three women have successfully been able to complete the Army’s Ranger School this year as part of the research into how to better integrate women in the military. The service opened it to women on a full-time basis in September, although the elite 75th Ranger Regiment remained closed to women at the time.

Skeptics remain, however. Sen. John McCain (R-Ariz.) and Rep. Mac Thornberry (R-Tex.), chairmen of the Senate and House armed services committees, said in a statement released jointly on Thursday that they intend to “carefully and thoroughly review all relevant documentation related to today’s decision,” including the Marine Corps gender integration study that caused the rift between the service and Mabus.

“We expect the Department to send over its implementation plans as quickly as possible to ensure our Committees have all the information necessary to conduct proper and rigorous oversight,” the statement said. “We also look forward to receiving the Department’s views on any changes to the Selective Service Act that may be required as a result of this decision.”

Other members of Congress applauded Carter’s decision. Rep. Martha McSally (R-Ariz.), a retired Air Force colonel and A-10 attack jet pilot, said in a statement that the move recognizes that the military is strongest when it prioritizes merit and capability.

“It’s about damn time,” McSally said in the statement. “Women have been fighting and dying for our country since its earliest wars. They have shown they can compete with the best of the best, and succeed. We are a country that looks at people as individuals, not groups. We select the best man for the job, even if it’s a woman.”

Another female combat veteran and member of Congress, Rep. Tammy Duckworth (D-Ill.), released an even more pointed statement of support reflecting her time as an Army helicopter pilot in Iraq and injuries suffered there.

“I didn’t lose my legs in a bar fight — of course women can serve in combat,” she said. “This decision is long overdue.”

Mabus said in a statement that Carter’s decision will maximize the combat effectiveness of the Navy and Marine Corps alike.

“Our process and studies showed that as long as someone can meet operationally relevant, occupation-specific, gender-neutral individual standards, that person is qualified to serve,” Mabus said. “Gender does not define the Service of a United States Sailor or Marine — instead, it is their character, selflessness, and abilities.”

[Women permeating the ranks of the military will prove to be
a colossal distraction for, surely not all, but many of the men with whom they serve.
How much time will they spend thinking about having sex with them?
Do these jackasses who supported this move think any regulation, or reasonable training,
will stop many men from being distracted?
And please, don't use the civilian comparison here.
Few civilians are separated from their normal relationships, sexual and otherwise,
and sent off to live in the closest possible proximity
to people to whom they are sexually attracted but,
according to the rules of military discipline,
forbidden from realizing that sexual attraction,
no matter how much it may be a mutual desire to engage in sex.
What about the couple, serving side by side,
want to have sex together, but are forbidden from doing so?
Do you (or does anyone) think that will not be a distraction?
Looking at pinups, or pornography, is one thing.
Having the object of your sexual desire rubbing against you in your training is another.

Notice how the media failed to find ANYONE who would express such concerns
for this (and other similar) articles.
Talk about biased reporting!]



2015-12-04-NYT-combat-military-women-ash-carter
All Combat Roles Now Open to Women, Defense Secretary Says
By MATTHEW ROSENBERG and DAVE PHILIPPS
New York Times, 2015-12-04

In a historic transformation of the American military, Defense Secretary Ashton B. Carter said on Thursday that the Pentagon would open all combat jobs to women.
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“There will be no exceptions,” Mr. Carter said at a news conference. He added, “They’ll be allowed to drive tanks, fire mortars and lead infantry soldiers into combat. They’ll be able to serve as Army Rangers and Green Berets, Navy SEALs, Marine Corps infantry, Air Force parajumpers and everything else that was previously open only to men.”

The groundbreaking decision overturns a longstanding rule that had restricted women from combat roles, even though women have often found themselves in combat in Iraq and Afghanistan over the past 14 years.

It is the latest in a long march of inclusive steps by the military, including racial integration in 1948 and the lifting of the ban on gay men and lesbians serving openly in the military in 2011. The decision this week will open about 220,000 military jobs to women.

The military faced a deadline set by the Obama administration three years ago to integrate women into all combat jobs by January or ask for specific exemptions. The Navy and Air Force have already opened almost all combat positions to women, and the Army has increasingly integrated its forces.

The announcement Thursday was a rebuke to the Marine Corps, which has a 93 percent male force dominated by infantry and a culture that still segregates recruits by gender for basic training. In September, the Marines requested an exemption for infantry and armor positions, citing a yearlong study that showed integration could hurt its fighting ability. But Mr. Carter said he overruled the Marines because the military should operate under a common set of standards.

Gen. Joseph E. Dunford Jr., the former commandant of the Marine Corps who recently became chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, did not attend the announcement, and in a statement Thursday appeared to give only tepid support, saying, “I have had the opportunity to provide my advice on the issue of full integration of women into the armed forces. In the wake of the secretary’s decision, my responsibility is to ensure his decision is properly implemented.”

Women have long chafed under the combat restrictions, which allowed them to serve in combat zones, often under fire, but prevented them from officially holding combat positions, including in the infantry, which remain crucial to career advancement. Women have long said that by not recognizing their real service, the military has unfairly held them back.

A major barrier fell this year when women were permitted to go through the grueling training that would allow them to qualify as Army Rangers, the service’s elite infantry.

Mr. Carter said that women would be allowed to serve in all military combat roles by early next year. He characterized the change as necessary to ensure that the United States military remained the world’s most powerful.

“When I became secretary of defense, I made a commitment to building America’s force of the future,” Mr. Carter told reporters. “In the 21st century that requires drawing strength from the broadest possible pool of talent. This includes women.”

The announcement Thursday was a rebuke to the Marine Corps, which has a 93 percent male force dominated by infantry and a culture that still segregates recruits by gender for basic training. In September, the Marines requested an exemption for infantry and armor positions, citing a yearlong study that showed integration could hurt its fighting ability. But Mr. Carter said he overruled the Marines because the military should operate under a common set of standards.

Gen. Joseph E. Dunford Jr., the former commandant of the Marine Corps who recently became chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, did not attend the announcement, and in a statement Thursday appeared to give only tepid support, saying, “I have had the opportunity to provide my advice on the issue of full integration of women into the armed forces. In the wake of the secretary’s decision, my responsibility is to ensure his decision is properly implemented.”

Women have long chafed under the combat restrictions, which allowed them to serve in combat zones, often under fire, but prevented them from officially holding combat positions, including in the infantry, which remain crucial to career advancement. Women have long said that by not recognizing their real service, the military has unfairly held them back.

A major barrier fell this year when women were permitted to go through the grueling training that would allow them to qualify as Army Rangers, the service’s elite infantry.

Mr. Carter said that women would be allowed to serve in all military combat roles by early next year. He characterized the change as necessary to ensure that the United States military remained the world’s most powerful.

“When I became secretary of defense, I made a commitment to building America’s force of the future,” Mr. Carter told reporters. “In the 21st century that requires drawing strength from the broadest possible pool of talent. This includes women.”

[How about reporting Elaine Donnelly's views on this?]

But the Republican chairmen of the Senate and House Armed Services Committees expressed caution and noted that by law Congress had 30 days to review the decision.

“Secretary Carter’s decision to open all combat positions to women will have a consequential impact on our service members and our military’s warfighting capabilities,” Senator John McCain of Arizona and Representative Mac Thornberry of Texas said in a statement. “The Senate and House Armed Services Committees intend to carefully and thoroughly review all relevant documentation related to today’s decision.”

Some in the military have privately voiced concern that integration will prove impractical, especially in the infantry, where heavy loads and long periods of deprivation are part of the job.

“Humping a hundred pounds, man, that ain’t easy, and it remains the defining physical requirement of the infantry,” said Paul Davis, an exercise scientist who did a multiyear study of the Marine infantry. “The practical reality is that even though we want to knock down this last bastion of exclusion, the preponderance of women will not be able to do the job.”

Mr. Carter acknowledged at the news conference that simply opening up combat roles to women was not going to lead to a fully integrated military. Senior defense officials and military officers would have to overcome the perception among many service members, men and women alike, that the change would reduce the effectiveness of the armed services.

The defense secretary sought to assuage those concerns on Thursday by saying that every service member would have to meet the standards of the jobs they wished to fill, and “there must be no quotas or perception thereof.”

He also acknowledged that many units were likely to remain largely male, especially elite infantry troops and Special Operations forces, where “only small numbers of women could” likely meet the standards.

“Studies say there are physical differences,” Mr. Carter said, though he added that some women could meet the most demanding physical requirements, just as some men could not.

At the same time, he said, military leaders are going to be required to assign jobs and tasks and determine who is promoted based on “ability, not gender.”

Lt. Col. Kate Germano, who oversaw the training of female recruits for the Marines until she was removed this summer from duty during a dispute over what she said were lower standards for women in basic training, said by creating standards, the military would improve across both genders.

She said while Marines have long resisted the idea of women in combat units, she did not expect a backlash.

“One thing about the Marine Corps, once you tell us what we have to do, we’ll do it,” she said. “There was resistance to lifting the ban on gays, too, and when it was lifted there were no issues. We are a stronger force for it.”

Mr. Carter’s announcement came less than a month from the three-year deadline set by the Obama administration to integrate the force.

Some veterans of recent wars say the unexpectedly long period of combat with no clear enemy lines may have been a driver for the change.

“I honestly didn’t think about women in combat much until Iraq,” said Jonathan Silk, a retired Army major who served in Afghanistan and Iraq as a cavalry scout.

In the fray of the insurgency, he said, integrated military police units near him often faced ferocious attacks. “That is where I encountered female soldiers that were in the same firefights as us, facing the same horrible stuff, even if they weren’t technically in combat units. They could fight just as well as I could, and some of those women were tremendous leaders. It gave me such respect.”




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Obama Administration Ignores Sound Military Advice on Women in Direct Ground Combat
Center for Military Readiness, 2015-12-04


2015-12-04-WP-Kathleen-Parker-women-in-combat-the-few-the-foolish
The few, the foolish
by Kathleen Parker
Washington Post Op-Ed, 2015-12-04

As the Islamic State amped up attacks around the world, the Pentagon responded by bravely announcing that American women will now be put in direct ground combat.

Whereupon “military intelligence” secured a permanent place in the Encyclopedia of Oxymorons.

The new decree opens 220,000 military jobs to women — including Army Special Operations forces and the Navy SEALs.

“They’ll be allowed to drive tanks, fire mortars and lead infantry soldiers into combat . . . and everything else that was previously open only to men,” said Defense Secretary Ashton Carter.

Commander in Chief Barack Obama promised an even stronger military, as “our armed forces will draw on an even wider pool of talent.”

Defense Secretary Ashton Carter announced that he is opening all jobs in combat units to women, after years of research and debate on the role of women in the military. (Reuters)

Notably missing from the historic news conference was Gen. Joseph Dunford, chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff and past Marine commandant. Dunford, apparently unwilling to ignore experience and empirical evidence, had recommended that infantry and armor positions remain closed to women. The Marines were the only service branch to request the ability to make exceptions to the new rule.

There’s plenty of evidence that women and men as groups aren’t equal in the demands of combat, even if some women may be and some men may not be. The few and far between shouldn’t be the basis for institutional overhaul, though this seems to be our template for mandates these days.

Among the evidence ignored by Obama, Carter and others are the results of a nine-month field test by University of Pittsburgh researchers who found that all-male USMC units outperformed mixed-gender units in 93 out of 134 ground combat tasks (69 percent).

This observation is no criticism of military women, who are just as determined, courageous and committed as their male counterparts. But contrary to what our government seems to think, the requirements of combat can’t be compromised to meet social goals of gender equality.

Likewise, proud assertions that allowing women in combat is yet another advance for equality akin to racial integration and acceptance of gays is nonsense. Gay men and black men are still men — and the vast majority of women in close combat will never be their equal.

Because of physical differences, including the fact that men have 40 percent more upper body muscle mass, women are at a disadvantage in combat, which often requires long deployments of deprivation and hardship, including toting 60 to 100 pounds of equipment.

It also means fighting close up — aggressively pursuing the enemy with the expectation of possible physical contact. Plainly put, women do not have an equal opportunity to survive. If this isn’t a feminist argument, I don’t know what is.

But many feminists don’t recognize it — or refuse to — for reasons that are understandable, if misguided. Being blocked from combat prevents women from rising to the highest ranks. Rather than tweak the rules of promotion, a more sensible approach, the military is placing women where they don’t belong and risking military effectiveness.

Although Carter said that women won’t likely qualify for many of the jobs and that posts will be assigned based on merit, not gender, only a fool believes this will last for long. How soon before men begin complaining that women are given special treatment? Furthermore, once women are assigned to combat, there will be no argument against drafting women.

The catechism of choice suddenly means no choice.

Arguments for women’s inclusion in combat, meanwhile, are far from convincing. Often cited is the fact that women found themselves on the front lines in Iraq and Afghanistan — against military rules at the time — and were killed and maimed the same as men. This seems hardly a case for assigning a job title to justify a mistake.

Other problems will present themselves in time, but we already know what they are. When women are treated differently or aren’t up to the task, men will resent it, damaging the unit cohesion that’s crucial to survival.

As a Marine combat veteran who commanded both an infantry platoon and a rifle company in Vietnam wrote me in an email: “It’s hard for me to imagine how women . . . under heavy fire and carrying 60 pounds of equipment, would have survived.”

Another veteran of the same war summed it up, if indelicately: “There is a difference between a bunch of candy-ass officers trying to get promoted for being politically correct and a combat battle-ready Marine unit in the field.”

What he said.



2015-12-05-Lang-TTG-so-let-it-be-written-so-let-it-be-done-ttg
So let it be written. So let it be done. - TTG
by "The Twisted Genius" (obviously a pseudonym)
Sic Semper Tyrannis (Patrick Lang's blog), 2015-12-05

This news shocked me, although I suppose I shouldn’t have been surprised.
The decision was probably make months ago by the culture warriors in the Administration.
What does this mean?
Our very own Fred made a comment that
“the goal here is solely to have a woman be chief of staff or chairman of the JCS.”
Fred’s right.
Now I am pretty damned sure that there is or will be a woman or two out there
who can be a competent chief of staff or chairman of the JCS.
I’ve known a very good commander of an aviation element
and another very good medical company commander who were female.
Anything’s possible. But those were not combat outfits.

I have two problems with this decision.
First, the way this decision was made is a slap in the face to the Services
and those officers who were studying this question.
The Army and the Marines spent a lot of time, money and effort
and were about to recommend keeping some positions closed to females.
Knowing the way the political winds were blowing,
those combat officers had to feel quite strongly about their recommendations.
Not to wait for the Services to present and defend their case before issuing this decision
was an act of gross disrespect.

The second problem I have with the decision
is the effect it will have on the platoon, company and battalion level of our combat units.
Our combat units will become social experiments...
experiments were the data will be skewed to fit the desired results.
Sure females have passed the Ranger Course.
Those women are probably fine officers, but the process corroded the Army.
They were not treated as equals.
They were given many more chances to succeed than their male counterparts were afforded.
A general officer came to the field and walked lanes
in order for the female students to pass their final patrols.
Do the Washington bureaucrats think the troops would not notice?
Clearly the bureaucrats have no respect for those troops.
Females in combat units will be cut slack whether they want it or not.
That’s the nature of command influence.
The final test for this social experiment will be administered by our enemies in combat.
They will not skew the data.

Finally, this process will be unfair
to the very female soldiers and officers that this decision is supposed to help.
One or two might make it on their merits and will become legends.
Most will be tainted by the effects of command influence
and the ensuing corrosive command climate.
Their careers and perhaps their souls will inevitably suffer.

TTG

[There are, as you might imagine, many comments to the above post.
Here are a few of them:]


turcopolier [Col. (ret.) Patrick Lang] said...
I recall my women cadet students at USMA. They were fit. They were strong. They had a good attitude and they broke down physically under the training and PT burdens that the men cadets carried routinely. Stress fractures, hernia in the abdomen, ripped cartilage and ligaments. These were commonplace among them. Like the old microbiologist here said I wonder about their injuries having had complications in later life. IMO this is just Obamanite Borgish social justice BS. pl
05 December 2015 at 10:52 AM

turcopolier said...
...
I knew women cadets who had no problem with the male oriented training regimen, but they were not many. In the end USMA had to modify the physical program so that the women could survive. I would like to know which armies use women as line enlisted infantry today. Don't say Israel. They have not done that since 1948. pl
05 December 2015 at 11:14 AM

turcopolier said...
If war has not changed and we insist on building our combat arms as jobs programs were going to lose our asses somewhere. pl
05 December 2015 at 11:37 AM

turcopolier said...
...
As I said, the Israelis do not use women as infantrymen or tankers.
I was head of liaison for DoD intel with the IDF for seven years.
They and we discussed this many times
and they thought we were mad to even think about it.
they have women officers in other than bang-bang jobs and women conscripts around HQ
mainly as companions for senior officers.
The skin tight uniforms, painted toenails in gold lame heels and plunging necklines tell the story.
There is a good reason why the very religious do not want their girls drafted.
BTW being in the US Army infantry is every bit as tough as being in marine infantry.pl
05 December 2015 at 01:39 PM


JMGavin said in reply to turcopolier...
...
As far as the Israeli example, I have always understood that the Israelis do not allow women in a large number of positions. My source for this information has always been those who have served in close proximity to the IDF (I have not served alongside the IDF). Despite this, one always hears phantom female Israeli commando formations as an example of how backwards the US military thinking is...I also suspect the Israelis do nothing to counter the perception, as it makes a good IO campaign.
05 December 2015 at 01:58 PM


turcopolier said...
JM Gavin
Every substantial country's clandestine and covert ops groups makes use of women. All of them. That is nothing like being an infantryman. pl
05 December 2015 at 02:26 PM


turcopolier said...
babak
The "social good" in this is the ability of women to be 4 star generals. pl
05 December 2015 at 01:49 PM


Ranger Ray said...
This decision, unless reversed by a Republican President in 2017, will be the death knell for our military. Unit morale, esprit, and performance in the combat arms will be allowed to erode so that a few female officers can enhance their petty careers. Unfortunately, the proof of that statement will be found in a contest on some distant battlefield with a foe who does not foist social experimentation upon its armed forces. I say that as one who spent nearly 25 years as a Regular Army Infantry Officer which included almost two years in nearly continuous combat in Vietnam. I know from whence I speak.

Furthermore, the above overlooks my heartfelt position that any country that willingly subjects its women to the rigors and terror of infantry combat has lost its soul. I say that as a Christian whose religious foundation has taught me the truth of the previous statement.
05 December 2015 at 05:16 PM



Baldor story







2016

2016-11-06-TTG-the-times-they-are-achanging-ttg
“The times they are a’changing” - TTG
by "The Twisted Genius" (obviously a pseudonym)
Sic Semper Tyrannis (Patrick Lang's blog), 2016-11-06

“WASHINGTON —
Ten women who were commissioned Army officers in the spring
graduated from the initial infantry training course Wednesday,
becoming the Army’s first female infantry lieutenants.
The women were among 166 soldiers to complete
the Infantry Officer Basic Leadership Course at Fort Benning in Georgia,
a 17-week class that provides new officers the basic skills to lead a rifle platoon into combat,
said Army Lt. Col. Matthew W. Weber,
the commander of the unit that oversees the course.
[Part of The Infantry School.]
Officers are commissioned through ROTC, Officer Candidate School
or the U.S. Military Academy at West Point, N.Y.”

...

Stars and Stripes

...

[Now that is something I know something about,
being a proud graduate of IOBC 73-2.
It was an excellent course, demanding both physically and mentally.
A good test and challenge for any man (or, I guess, now woman).

My take on this (women in combat units) yet again is:
No matter how proficient these women may be in combat and leadership skills,
they will inevitably cause more problems for the Army than they are worth.
What problems?
Simply those that are inevitable when men and women of that age
are in such close proximity, day and night,
while they are deprived of the access to sex they would have in the civilian world.
How on earth can anyone expect the Army to prevent sex between the troops,
whether it is consensual or otherwise?
This will completely corrupt and corrode
the whole delicate balance of command relationships.

The feminists have, as usual, made a complete mess of things.
But we know their response:
The little *****'s will blame the men.
It's all the men's fault!
And the only solution, in their eyes, is to put women in charge of everything.
Victory through victimhood, that's the feminists strategy.]

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2005-02-11

The goals of women

This is only in preliminary, incomplete, draft form.

Feminism Old school values
Business success
Power
Family success
Social activism
(The direction of this has changed over time.)
Sexual pleasure
(Formerly severely repressed.
And now?)

Could there be something more important than social activism? :

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2005-02-10

The rising tide of female unhappiness

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It isn’t just street harassment.
Women face unwanted attention no matter how they get around.

By Vicky Hallett
Washington Post (Express), 2014-11-07

[Vicki specializes in transportation (mainly non-auto) and physical fitness for the Washington Post's give-away paper, the Express.
She fairly uniformly adopts a cheerful, upbeat tone, almost always a pleasure to read.
She definitely doesn't usually use the totally PC, victim-mongering tone of the Post's Petula Dvorak.]


I often feel a compulsion to engage with strangers in public. Staring at a map? I’ll offer you directions. Debating with a buddy on the Metro about what’s the appropriate way to refer to the airport in Arlington? I’ll butt in to let you know my opinion. (It’s “National,” obviously.)

But even I don’t want to talk to people all of the time. And I shouldn’t have to.

The viral video “10 Hours of Walking in NYC as a Woman” has highlighted how often women minding their own business are asked to smile or take a lewd compliment in stride. Ignore a man who says something “nice,” and there’s a risk the next thing out of his mouth will be infinitely worse.

My favorite way of getting around the city is on foot, and I feel physically safe walking almost anywhere. But my enjoyment of a stroll can be considerably diminished — like last Sunday on U Street, when a guy commented on my rear end and then followed me for two blocks. As soon as I lost him by boarding a bus, another dude slid next to me and said, “Hey, what’s your name?”

Talk about an awkward situation.
At least on the sidewalk, it’s possible to change direction.
At least on the Metro, there are other cars to escape to.
Here I was stuck in a window seat,
so I just sat there while he muttered about how rude I was being.

Last week, the Thomson Reuters Foundation ranked
the public transportation systems of 16 of the world’s largest cities
on their safety for women.
New York, the only U.S. city on the list, came out on top.
But just because a ride is safe doesn’t mean it’s comfortable.
I’d guess that the actress in that viral video gets plenty of unwanted attention
when she’s on a crosstown bus too.

Biking isn’t a better option —
female cyclists may be able to maneuver away from creeps quicker,
but they’re still targets.
As for cabs, it’s mostly gentlemen behind the wheel,
but every woman has stories about inappropriate drivers.

So what’s the solution to this problem?
Maybe it’s SheRides.
The new livery service in New York is for female customers,
and makes it a priority to hire female drivers.
It plans to expand to D.C. next year.
Sadly for society, it’s not a bad idea.



[I have no first-hand experience with this issue, as I am a man.
But I do wonder:
Is this problem new?
Is it worse than it used to be?
(Or are women now more sensitive to it, their "consciousness having been raised".)
If it is worse, why is it worse?
Could the reason (gasp) have anything to do with women themselves?
Is their current conduct, after years of making additional demands on men,
itself causing men to hold women in lower regard than they used to?
Has the fact that so many women have chosen
wanting power over wanting to be loved
(a recent example of this is the "leaning in" movement)
caused men to value women less?

No doubt many feminists simply cannot bring themselves
to ever, EVER, blame feminism when things go wrong.
But even for those who just cannot blame feminism,
I think they really do owe a plausible answer as to
whether things are really worse than they used to be,
and if so, why they think that is.
If, on the other hand, men are as they always were,
but now (many) women realize how unjust that is,
then those demanding change need to take
full responsibility for the changes they are demanding.]

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Do women enjoy sex with men?

Disclosure: I am a man, so surely have no first-hand insight into that question.
I can only rely on what I am told.
But there does not seem to be a consistent answer, from women themselves,
to that question.
On the one hand, we have in the august New York Times Book Review
a review by Rachel Shteir of The Richer Sex by Liza Mundy
which begins with the following:
Five or six years ago,
my mother and I [Rachel Shteir] sat in a darkened theater
talking about a couple we knew.
The wife was an executive with Ivy League degrees.
The husband had some nebulous part-time job,
but mostly he stayed home with the kids.
What, I wondered, does he have that’s attractive to her?
There was a pause.
Sperm, my mother replied.

Today, that conversation is as obsolete as “The Feminine Mystique.”
For one, as The New York Times recently reported,
more women are having children without marrying.
In 2009 more than half of all births to women under 30
occurred outside marriage —
an institution that is losing popularity in historic proportions.
She could also have mentioned
the rise of children conceived through artificial insemination from sperm banks.


Then there is the view that
the only thing women want from men is someone to do the grunt work.
This was expressed at length by one of the PCBs of the Washington Post Style section, Monica Hesse,
when she wrote:
Weiner, or someone pretending to be Weiner, apparently assumed that
women would enjoy seeing photos of bulging briefs via Twitter.

We polled some women. Really, they would like to see . . .

“I would like a photo of a made bed,”
says Kathryn Roberts, who works at a law firm in Washington.
“I would take rose petals, but I want them on top of a made bed.”
And not that fake kind of made, either,
where the comforter is smooth but the sheets are a jumbled mess.

“Or laundry,” adds her friend Andrea Neurohr.

“Folded laundry,” elaborates Roberts.
“Maybe in a wicker basket.”

Over the years, a handful of famous men —
and a boatload full of unfamous, Craigslisty men —
have landed in the news for sending women
photos of their artfully framed packages.
Brett Favre allegedly had a special delivery for Jenn Sterger,
a sideline reporter for the New York Jets.
Kanye West allegedly provided some of his female MySpace friends
with some extra-friendly pictures.
There are entire Web sites, aimed at men,
teaching them the etiquette for public displays of private parts.

Men! Broaden your seduction techniques!

How about you move away from the below-the-waist close-up?
How about you try going naked from the waist up?
How about a picture of you, sweaty, cleaning out the storm drain?
How about a photograph of you gently caressing the yogurt,
as you rotate the soon-to-expire food to the front of the refrigerator?
So sexy!

“The refrigerator,” says Gretchen LeMaistre.
“That’s a big scenario.”
LeMaistre is a San Francisco-based photographer
who has worked on the “Porn for Women” series,
tongue-in-cheek books purporting to tap into women’s most intimate pleasure zones.
In the yet-unpublished “Porn for Working Women,”
an attractive man cleans out the office fridge and asks,
“Am I the only one who cares if we have a clean breakroom?”

Not all women like this, of course.
This is the part where we call up an expert,
who affirms that there is a great diversity in what women find arousing.

“There is a great diversity in what women find arousing,”
says Marta Meana, a renowned psychologist
who studies women’s sexual function at the University of Nevada at Las Vegas.
She would never want to make blanket statements
about what does or does not put wind in one’s sails.

But.

“But,” she says, if you look at the empirical literature,
it does indicate that the majority of women
are not as aroused by pictures of” naked man-parts.

Cindy Meston directs the Sexual Psychophysiology Laboratory
at the University of Texas at Austin.
She is a past president of
the International Society for the Study of Women’s Sexual Health.
If there is something you want to know about what turns women on,
she is the person you call.

“We spent six years of research on why women have sex,” Meston says.
They compiled 237 reasons.
Duty sex. Revenge sex. Pity sex.
Bored sex, engaged in because women simply had nothing better to do.
“Of the 237 reasons why women have sex,” Meston says,
“not one was looking at a man’s genitals.”

[The key point here is that the notion that
a woman could find pleasure in sex
(see below for at least one who will admit to finding pleasure in sex with men)
does not even seem worth mentioning to the author of this piece.
What a bitch.
But how typical of the Washington Post,
which so transparently reflects the values of
an ownership family of three generations of single moms.]


Women, research increasingly shows,
are nuanced sexual beings whose arousal depends on
context, mood and a whole bunch of things they aren’t even aware of.
Men are different.
Men do tend to find the equivalent naked pictures of women titillating.
When they send women photos of their genitalia,
they are engaging in a sort of sexting golden rule:
I think it’s hot, so you should, too.
(If women also employed this rule,
they would text pictures of themselves taking out the recycling.)

“I can picture liking a photo that’s a little private and romantic,”
says Amy MacHarg of Arlington County.
She could envision a photo of some massage oils,
or perhaps a man sitting at a candle-lit table.
He would be holding a pan.
Because he had just cooked the meal.

Now, of course, there is a difference between the images that turn women on
and the physical acts that give them the most sexual pleasure.
But even so, one would think that the actions of the male phallus gave women pleasure
that they would find images of that pleasure-giving tool of some interest.
And certainly, the unequivocal message given by the women in Hesse's article
is that their only use for men is to do the work,
not to give them pleasure.



But now for another view (obviously, not one that would occur to Ms. Hesse).
Let us quote the view of a WASP women (in fact, an Episocpalian!)
who was born in 1943 and experienced, by her own account,
her first instance of sex
(as we used to say, "was deflowered" or "lost her virginity")
in 1962 in the summer after her freshman year at Wheaton (MA) College.
She lost her virginity to a man who was born in 1917, i.e., was 26 years older.
And how did that affect her attitudes towards sex?
Well, in the year after she lost her virginity
she went back to college and, in the normal course of events,
met a man her own age, a student at Williams.
And what were her attitudes towards sex then?
Let me now quote her directly,
in the words she used in a book of hers that was published in 2012 (when she was 69):
As winter melted into spring [of 1963]
I began seeing Tony practically every weekend,
either at Williams or at Wheaton.
We didn’t have an intimate relationship at this point.
He never pressed me for sex.

While his gentlemanly behavior was quite attractive,
this situation did pose a bit of conundrum for me.
I was physically attracted to Tony and [her emphasis]
I had learned the pleasures of sexual intimacy from [her first paramour].
This created a yearning in me
for something more than necking in dorms and cars.
But pushing for sex with Tony would have raised more questions:
girls like me didn’t do that back then.
I might have to explain why it wasn’t my first time,
and that wasn’t a conversation I wanted to have.

[The common work-arounds to that problem back then were:
1. claiming the hymen had been broken in some sort of accident or medical event
(horseback riding was a favorite) or
2. it had been broken in a rape.]

“The pleasures of sexual intimacy.”
What a quaint phrase,
and one that does not appear very compatible with the attitudes expressed by Mss. Shteir and Hesse.

But wait.
On Googling Ms. Hesse I find that
poor-monica-hesse-is-also-a-failed-lesbian.
Could that have anything to do with
her problems in finding male sexual parts of interest?



For a columnist in the Post Style section who, pace the article about Weiner,
says “straight female fans” may enjoy seeing the male anatomy, see
“Skin is wearing thin on HBO’s ‘Game of Thrones’ ”
by the arch-feminist Anna Holmes, who wrote the following:
As for the men, well,
they aren’t asked to bare all very often, if ever.
By my count, it has happened only once,
to actor Alfie Allen (brother of pop singer Lily)
who plays the turncoatish and arrogant Iron Islander Theon Greyjoy.
But Allen’s nude body is not presented as pleasurable eye candy;
viewers are not persuaded to desire him but to despise him.
And
the man straight female fans are arguably
most likely to want to see disrobe,

Kit Harrington’s Jon Snow,
is likely to remain bundled up in the animal skins and iron armor
favored by his military brotherhood, the Night’s Watch.

Said one Twitter user, @Aurelia_Nicole,
“I understand sex as a currency in Westeros
but I need it to be a bit more egalitarian.”

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Women and risks

2009


2009-11-23-USAToday-mammographs-recommendation
Mammogram recommendation becoming pink-ribbon issue
By Liz Szabo
USA Today, 2009-11-23

[1]
Breast cancer campaigns have helped raise awareness about breast cancer,
as well as money for research.
But all those pink ribbons have given women
an inflated fear of the disease –
and
unrealistic expectations about the benefits of mammograms,
says Lisa Schwartz, a doctor at
the Veterans Affairs Outcomes Group in White River Junction, Vt.

[2]
That mixture of fear and faith has helped fuel
the backlash against new recommendations
from the U.S. Preventive Services Task Force,
says Fran Visco, president of the National Breast Cancer Coalition.
The independent panel suggested last week that
doctors stop routinely performing mammograms on most women under 50
and instead let women make up their own minds about
the risks and benefits of the screening tests.

[3]
For two decades, Visco says, cancer groups
have oversold and oversimplified the benefits of early detection
to get women to follow their advice about breast screening.
Many women now see mammograms as completely positive, with no risks,
and are unwilling to give them up.

[4]
“When we give public health messages,
we better be damn sure that they are rooted in a high level of evidence,”
Visco says.
“Taking back our words when we finally have the right evidence
is virtually impossible.”

[5]
The American Cancer Society’s Robert Smith,
who supports mammograms for younger women,
says public health messages have to be simple.
“To say ‘screening saves lives’ is a shortcut,” he says.
Screening is
“the pathway to a treatment that reduces your risk of death.”

[6]
The decision to have a mammogram is actually more complex than many realize, Schwartz says.
In addition to causing “false alarms,”
in which suspicious results later prove to be benign,
mammograms also lead some women to undergo unnecessary treatments
for tumors that aren’t actually life-threatening,
she says.

[7]
“People may have unrealistic expectations
about what mammography can and can’t do,”
says the American College of Radiology’s Carol Lee,
who promotes routine mammograms for women in their 40s.
“But it’s the best test we have to offer, as imperfect as it is.”

[8]
Schwartz says she grapples with the question of screening herself.
And she understands
why many young women want to continue having regular mammograms.

[9]
But she says doctors need to do a better job
helping women understand the big picture:
“People should be able to discuss these things
and make the decision that’s right for you.”





2009-11-24-USAToday-mammographs-poll
Women are insistent on mammograms, poll shows
By Liz Szabo
USA Today, 2009-11-24

[1]
A vast majority of American women plan to ignore
controversial new recommendations about mammograms,
a USA TODAY/Gallup Poll shows.
The poll also shows that
most women sharply overestimate their risk of developing the disease.

[2]
The U.S. Preventive Services Task Force,
an independent panel of government-appointed experts,
suggested last week that
most women don’t need routine mammograms until age 50.
The panel had told women to begin breast cancer screening at age 40.

[3]
Women across the USA have reacted angrily to the recommendations
and expressed concern that delaying the tests could endanger their lives.
In the new survey of 1,136 women,
76% of women say
they disagree or strongly disagree with the recommendations.


[4]
And 84% of women ages 35 to 49 say
they plan to get mammograms before age 50
despite the independent panel’s advice.
That’s in keeping with the guidance of the American Cancer Society,
which recommends annual mammograms beginning at age 40.

[5]
Yet while the respondents expressed strong emotions about mammograms,
the poll found that most women have misconceptions about the disease
and the panels’ motives.

[6]
Seventy-six percent of women said
they believe that the panel based its conclusions on cost,
even though the task force’s report included only scientific studies.

Women also perceive their breast cancer risk
to be higher than it really is.

Forty percent of women estimate that
a 40-year-old’s chance
of developing breast cancer over the next decade is
20% to 50%.
The real risk is
1.4%,

according to the National Cancer Institute.

[That figure seems inconsistent with the table below.]

[7]
“It’s gratifying that most women have gotten the message that
they should get a mammogram and get it annually,”
says Otis Brawley, the cancer society’s chief medical officer.
“Unfortunately, your poll also shows that
we still need to do a lot in terms of health education.”

[8]
The task force didn’t rule out mammograms for women younger than 50,
but it suggested that women in their 40s talk to their doctors about
the benefits and risks of screening,
which include false alarms and even unnecessary treatment.
Ten percent to 33% of early breast tumors have no potential to kill,
Brawley says.
Because doctors can’t be certain which tumors will prove deadly,
they tend to treat all of them,
which subjects some women to unneeded therapies.

[9]
Most women hear only about the benefits of mammograms,
and few realize that
doctors have been hotly debating their use for more than a decade,
says Steve Woloshin, a physician at
the Veterans Affairs Outcomes Group in White River Junction, Vt.

[10]
Doctors need to do a better job of explaining these risks to patients,
and that might help women feel less suspicious
about efforts to target mammogram use,
Woloshin says.

[11]
The telephone survey has a margin of error of +/— 4 percentage points,
but the margin of error for questions posed only to the 284 women ages 35 to 49
is +/— 7 percentage points.




10-year risk of death from breast cancer
Ages
40-49
Ages
50-59
Without screening 0.33% 0.89%
With screening 0.28% 0.69%
Absolute reduction in risk 0.05% 0.20%

Source: Steve Woloshin, Veterans Affairs Outcomes Group

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Women, contraception, and prostitution

As I write this, in April 2012, contraception and prostitution have been much in the news recently.

Contraception became a major issue on the American political scene,
as discussed here
(see also the Rush Limbaugh–Sandra Fluke controversy).

Prostitution, much to my surprise,
exploded onto the front page of the Washington Post
and into the attention of much of the political/media elite
with the Secret Service Columbia prostitute issue.

While various groups in American society no doubt
have varying opinions on the underlying issues raised by the above,
the attitudes of liberal, well-educated women seem particularly interesting.
On the issue of contraception, as reported by the media,
they seem overwhelmingly in favor of
providing free (to them) contraceptives to virtually all women,
in particular, any woman covered by health insurance.
What this seems to inescapably imply is that
it is the responsibility of everyone
to allow women to have sex with anyone they chose
without having to worry about the possibility of a childbirth as a result.
Further,
the Washington Post and New York Times seem to support that position
in their editorials.

On the other hand, the media/political complex
seems to have come down overwhelmingly harshly on
those poor Secret Service and military men who were caught in (gasp!)
hiring prostitutes to service their sexual needs in Columbia,
a country where prostitution is legal.
Yes, I realize that
there have been allegations of national security issues being at stake,
but I suspect that potential issue has been overblown,
and further note that some news articles have stated that
this has become an issue of gender politics.

So here is a question:

Why is it perfectly OK for women to have sex with anyone they want,
in fact, forcing everyone to pay to enable the sex those women have,
but not OK for men to have sex with prostitutes, on their own dime?

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Marriage

2010


2010-01-24-NYT-Loh-My-So-Called-Wife
My So-Called Wife
By SANDRA TSING LOH
New York Times Op-Ed, 2010-01-24

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Cougar Town

Wikipedia, Google

2009


2009-09-23-Express
Desperate Measures: 'Cougar Town'
Review in
Washington Post's Express, 2009-09-23


2009-09-24-NYT-Warner-Cougar-Town-Courteney-Cox
The Real Cougar Fans
by Judith Warner
New York Times Blog, 2009-09-24



[For a short (~1 minute) excerpt from the show, click here.
For more Courteney, click here.

Ms. Warner writes (but the emphasis is added by the current author):]


It was hard for me at first to find words for why I hated — simply hated —
Cougar Town,”
the new Courteney Cox vehicle that debuted Wednesday night on ABC.

It really wasn’t Cox herself,
though I found her manic energy exhausting,
and found watching her pretend to jiggle the flesh
on her improbably flat belly and her skeletally skinny arms
little less than nauseating.
(Message to matrons: if Cox, thin as a rail at 45
and maintained like a museum piece,
can compare herself to a “farm animal,”
then you really are a bunch of cows.)

But then I started reading a bit,
and came to Washington Post critic Hank Stuever’s roundup review
of “Cougar Town” and “The Good Wife,”
a new CBS drama about a woman who rises from the ashes of public humiliation
after her politician husband admits to having sex with prostitutes.
Both — like “Sex and the City,”
“our culture’s ur-text on desperate women in desperate times,” he wrote,
are animated by the same stereotypical “undercurrent”:
“Women today are more than ever uncertain of themselves, nearly broken,
worried about senescence,
intimidated by the youth around them and depleted by various cads.”

[Yeah, right. Like these.]

He concludes: “It is sad, this confused state of American womanhood.”

Yes, it would be, if it were true.

[Washington Post Style Section staff writer Hank Steuver
has informed his readers that he is homosexual.
That, by definition, cannot help but have some effect on how he views women.

In any case, I too read those lines of Steuver when they came out,
and thought they were laughable.
They are perhaps true for some women of Steuver’s acquaintance,
but seem most unlikely to be true of the broad American female population.
In any case, there is scant evidence for it, certainly none that he has presented.]


...

Most women in their 40s,
however conflicted, however sometimes confused,
aren’t actually spiraling into self-doubting despair,

but are actually working their way toward
some greater degree of self-acceptance.
Many experience — along with
the shift in body mass that pulls things down and pushes them sideways —
a kind of psychic shift
that frees up some of the energy that once went into external appearances.
Many come into their own, creatively, professionally.
And in motherhood, in friendships, in romantic relationships.

[Evidently
“the shift in body mass that ... pushes them sideways”
hasn’t yet affected Jenny Sanford:


Then there’s the 52-year-old Denise Austin:


[Warner continue in the same hypercritical vein:]

A woman like Cox’s Jules —
visibly vibrating with self-doubt and thinly-veiled self-loathing,
is, it’s fair to say,
probably the least likely figure of fantasy
to be conjured by women Cox’s age.

[In any case, is there something wrong with sexual relationships?
And can’t those “friendships and romantic relationships”
which Ms. Warner seems to place in opposition to what Jules is after
in fact be with men, perhaps much younger men?

I thought feminism was about giving women options.
Evidently at least Ms. Warner is quite willing to criticize
women who chose what she considers the “wrong” option.

Feminists are always accusing women who don’t play by the feminist playbook
of being “self-hating,” “self-loathing,” “conflicted,” “confused,”
“spiraling into self-doubting despair,” etc.
It’s just a cheap mind-game feminists like to play with those who oppose them.
(Also, it’s not the feminist ideal:
The Battle-Axe, without hint of self-doubt,
always insisting that she is right,
who when criticized responds, or her friends respond for her,
“Don’t blame the victim”;
the battle-axes that women’s studies programs churn out
and who drive men away from the thought of marrying such dominatrix’s.)

Why couldn’t Jules accuse Judy Warner of the same psychological afflictions?
The reason, of course, is that
those people who oppose feminism
don’t have the massive power of Jewish-owned or -controlled media
to keep hammering their point of view into the public’s consciousness.]













A super cougar!: Iris Robinson! (Google; image; laughing head-back image;
Daily Mail 2010-01-08 story)

Putting this in a larger context, this is really a “Man bites dog” story.
That is, the usual accounts of sex between teenage males and over-55 women
involve sexual aggression on the part of the male.
At least in the newspapers I read, every now and then one reads about
some teenage punk who rapes a much older woman, sometimes even in her 60s.
I don’t recall ever reading about a situation such as
that of Mrs. Robinson and her lover before this.

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Cougars

It may not be responsible from a lot of viewpoints for me to say this,
but it seems to me that if older women have fun (i.e., sex) with young men,
this may be problematic from some viewpoints,
such as religious morality,
but it hardly hurts the young man involved.
What hurt there is is an "opportunity cost" problem:
he is not experiencing the interactions with women his own age that he otherwise might,
and might aid his development.
But in some cases that isn't happening anyhow,
and he does gain, I would hope,
some experience in the kind of sexual relations that women do like.
And it seems to me that that is a good thing.
Further, most young men would not view such an affair as a relation likely to continue,
but just as part of their growth and education,
in this case in a very worldly matter.
And again, aside from the religious viewpoint,
I think that is very worthwhile.
Obviously, this is just my opinion,
and one not widely shared by those shaping the overall social climate.







In fiction
In fact




In fiction

Note the 1997 movie In Praise of Older Women.
The first video below is an excerpt from it.

Faye Dunaway
(Note: Faye Dunaway was born in 1941;
In Praise of Older Women was released in 1997.)



Jacqueline Bisset
(Note: Jacqueline Bisset was born in 1944;
Rich and Famous was released in 1981.)


Perhaps the most famous cougar in films:
Anne Bancroft as Mrs. Robinson in The Graduate

A short version (about one minute)





More presumably fictional portrayals of sex between older women and younger men
may be found by visiting bing.com, clicking on Videos,
then searching on, say,
older women younger men sex.
An specific example may be found by searching on
"mature women invite young guy".
This would seem fictional to me, but who knows?
Or search on, say,
Lisa Ann cougar
or
Lisa Ann MILF
featuring the apparently eternal beauty Lisa Ann
(see the twenty-year duration of her filmography.
Interesting to see what at least some men
(and who knows, maybe even some women :-)
find attractive.

I just like to see women who can and do enjoy sex,
making the most of their sexual potential,
rather than suppressing it.













In fact


Mrs. Iris Robinson of Northern Ireland



Molly Shattuck




Elaine McKay

Mature woman, Elaine McKay, 58, sends nude selfies and sleeps with student, 15

Note: The (unnamed) boy claims that they had sex, which Ms. McKay denies.
The sentence she received for sending images.



Anonymous
The following boxed item
is one of the comments to a 2015-12-19 CBS News report
on the Shelley Dufresne/Rachell Respress student/teacher sex case.
One never knows whether what people write as comments is fact or fiction;
this might be totally made up.
But the situation described sounds very much like the 1950s legends about what "Good Moms" do to entertain their sons boyfriends.
(The only difference is that in the 1950s, we (or at least I) never thought about using marijuana.)
Note the comment that "the sex [was] incredible".
It sounds like the boy's concerns were not over the sex per se,
but rather the attempts of the older woman to make sure
nobody else would find out about the fun they had had.

DJTrump4Prez2016 December 19, 2015 7:7AM

It's very interesting how so many people [I assume men]
view only the sex portion of this crime and see it as "being lucky."

When I was a teenager, just 14, I was friends with the Sheriff's son.
One day, I go over there, and his mother answers the door.
She's 53, and really takes care of herself.
She tells me that nobody is home,
as "the boys went fishing for the weekend."
I was invited in, so I accepted.

She started commenting on how I looked good, which was awkward.
Then she busted out her weed stash, beer, and porn.
Things quickly progressed, and I wasn't certain exactly how to handle it.

After it was over, things got strange.
I'd suddenly be coincidentally bumping into her in our small Midwest town.
She'd talk to me in a threatening way,
first asking if anyone has asked me anything, or asking if anyone knows,
and then saying that I'll have her son and husband [Sheriff] to deal with
if anyone ever finds out.
She would threaten me a few times per month.

Of course, her son would still invite me over, and I'd still go.
She'd shoot me looks, like, "Yea, I own you now."
I played guitar with the Sheriff [he played banjo] and his son.
I used to look forward to getting together with them.
But after the encounter, I dreaded it,
but I had to pretend that everything was okay and nothing had changed.

I'm not going to lie, the bud, the booze, and the sex were incredible.
However, the other things that came along with the package
were bitter, twisted, threatening, scary,
and not something I'd ever wish on a 14-year-old boy,
let alone anyone else.
It definitely was NOT all fun and games.

Everything has a price. Everything.

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