That is the question made explicit here:
https://wjla.com/news/local/virginia-arlington-county-school-washington-liberty-high-school-woman-daughter-transgender-man-womens-girls-school-locker-room-commonwealths-attorney
I don't think this issue should be hidden.
Mary Kadera needs to state exactly what she was told, and what she did about it.
Is this what the homosexual community (the media writes incessantly about the "GLBTQ" community) wants and endorses?